Dear Wendy: "My Boyfriend's Getting Fat". Yeah, I gained during the pandemic, then added to that. Grammar and punctuation are obviously not your strong suit. It's not my place to be mad if he wants to less eat or drink fewer sodas. But no plans for diet or exercise to lose all this weight, unless, you know, something goes wrong with my health. Oh I know why BECAUSE THERE AREN'T ANY. However, even if you are attracted to your husbands fat body, obesity is almost always accompanied by a number of health complications, especially if it is sarcopenic obesity or skinny fat. I love his weight on me when we f uck, but now it's getting hard for us to fit except for certain positions, but we make it work! So if the doctor has said that your husband has obesity health risks and you didnt fully understand what they mean by skinny fat, now you know why. Copyright 20052023 ConfessionPost.com. In that case, you probably like the way he is getting fat. It's only bigger and rounder for the future! I keep getting fatter and she keeps aggressively offering me desserts and seconds. There is always next year to shape up! Does it mean I never loved him? Sounds like your wife doesnt want you to lose any weight. Ive always been on the diet side of the conversation, but now that Ive put on some weight, I understand the obesity side much more. My wife has been more aggressive in her encouragement of me eating. But it also doesnt make for an easy relationship, in part because it often leads to feelings like you described of guilt or self-flagellation. She succeeded. Dear E. Jean: I adore my boyfriend of six years. I wouldnt say its a really noticeable gain so far unless Im in a swimsuit. skinny fat is also a result of excessive stress because a hormone called cortisol would increase in the body, leading to insulin resistance and eventually fat gain. I think he has fetish for big woman . Feeling that my pants dont fit anymore is a turn on. God it's fun when your wife gets fat! It was just me trying to neigh the my instincts of becoming a complete blob. She might not want to say something because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings (if shes not into it). At 31, I've been in a couple of long-term relationships before. He says not to worry, he loves my THICCCCC body. I purposely dont go to the doctor so he leaves me alone, and when I shows up in my 9th month, i f ucking nearly pass out when he sees me. I used to suffer from anorexia about 10 years ago. I dont think a belly looks bad on a man and he has a strong frame and can carry the weight. "I like my girlfriend's weight gain.". THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! Maybe I can recognize that I could be a negative influence. She never verbally discussed it with me but the bigger I kept getting the lovemaking and bigger fattening meals just kept coming. Im the bloated one. Thank you!! But that belly yuck. until I eat it all. To be even clearer: I AM NOT CONCERNED ABOUT HIS WEIGHT IN TERMS OF HIS HEALTH. Im really liking it. Youll find that this will help put 25+ pounds on your hubby as you start your married life and then you can increase his portion size to get another 25 pounds on him by your first anniversary. The things I've enjoyed, the ups and downs of fat people because I'm fat, and any advice and tips & ideas I've picked up along the way that has helped me and may help you. I have found tremendous stress reduction from adopting a foodie/feeder lifestyle.Now that I am obviously obese, I am very humble and nonjudgmental around the growing numbers of similarly configured men and women I encounter. It really hurt my feelings. Now, she says, his 6-ft.-1-inch frame is "more than a little fleshy and mushy" and the weight . =( I am afraid my attraction to him may decrease if he gets skinny again. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. I'm very glad to hear that you and your children enjoy eating and being fat. His messed-up mind tells him, "Nobody will want a fat . Show up, love him, give . Can you touch each other more (gross sentence, sorry)? Well, a year ago, I gots preggo, and the doctor's like, I gots to loose weight, cuz I was like 320 pounds and He says its gonna be a prob for the pregancy. Because if she is the type to be constantly trying to be a good fatty by constantly attempting some dumbass diet or worse yet, weightloss surgery, then both you and she will be miserable for the rest of your lives. But unless you know me really well, its not super noticeable. When we were dating she was 180 or 190, and she's only 5'6". are my parents right to lock me in my room as punishment for drinking underage . I'm 5'7 and in the quarantine, my weight went up to 258 from around 200. Have been almost this heavy previously, and was really stressed about it. My husband is fattening up even without my help. Probably just living the life of an average American woman at this point and the pounds have just come on. She seemed so confused with how Fat I became and continued to grow she didnt even seem to mind that she was now the heaviest she had ever been as well. I want to admit to him, but I'm afraid. And during s**, shes gotten a lot more grabby and seems to be into my widening body. She seems to finally be accepting that shes just going to be a little more matronly. So you should still put some care into his diet and exercise. She weighed herself in July and she was 328. You need to let her do what makes her feel happy. 2. Its going to happen regardless. Just before I had my baby, I was 416. they weighs me then cuz they say i might need c section. It helps if she hangs out with fat female friends, if that's possible. Sometimes it feels more like were roommates than boyfriend and girlfriend and Im really upset by that. (Instead actually say what you feel though, obviously.) Can you imagine your hubby as a 500 pounder? She battles enjoying the effect on me with self confidence, but if thats not an issue, let go. There are three main ways to determine body composition-. Whats better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom? THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! My husband will eat anything, and if I put it in front of him, he will finish it. Yeah maybe. I'm not that tall so it's a lot - I'm 5'7 and at the moment I weigh 234 pounds. You should always seek an expert opinion if you need to. Or she just loves you, wants you to be happy and doesnt care about your marriage waddle. Now, this can have two reasons. Im not mad at him encouraging me to gain weight. But he has been super sweet about my weight gain, so Im a little conflicted!! She is still breast feeding our youngest and needs to be pumped on a daily basis and since she is so huge, she has difficulty doing it herself. I call him fatty and tubby, and sometimes when I text him, I call him Fat Boy. So I decieded to take, what I considered, a huge risk and share some pictures of Kelligrl--a bbw gainer back in the 90s. My favorite part is how now (when I'm fully stuffed), my belly blocks her head from view when she's going down on me. My wife has gained 30-40 pounds during this pandemic, and I love it! Without a healthy s e x life, he wouldnt have doubled his weight so quickly (3 years). They say you dont have to finish it all, which means we have to finish it all. I just kept saying how lovely and sexy she looked and the more I'd say more she seemed to gain she has a sweet tooth and likes takeaway, My wife is a bbw 350 pounds love her rolls of fat that hang over her fat p**** and huge saggy t*** 44Ddd, My wife lisa is the same way 365 pounds she has fat rolls that hang over fat hairy p**** she also has huge saggy 44 DD t*** with big pink nipples, Any tips on getting my wife fatter? Keeping the pounds off is one of the challenges of middle age. But I have a partner who adores fat men and she has absolutely no problem with me gaining weight. She got diabetes of pregnancy right toward the end, but still kept pigging out. Please, always consult with a Licensed Professional or your Local Doctor for advice if you need to. And the gain has been all over, so its not like it looks odd to be 20 pounds heavier. He said he's put on ~30 pounds in the last year. In comparison to what he looked like before (~150 pounds on that frame) of course he looks fat, but now he seems average like any guy his height. My boyfriend and I have been dating about 3 almost 4 months now. When we first started dating, he was a very hot, very . So even if your husbands skinny fat looks good to you and himself, he might actually be suffering from serious health issues. Like I said, it took some pressure off to know how he felt. My hopes are the same for my girls. Less explaining means more time for eating. Should I tell him? Not super tall, but a tallish guy. How does she feel about it? At 20 I loved my boyfriends hard body. My hubs says he will get me an aide for me. I am successful, greedy, indulgent, fatter than ever, and answer to piggy. My cooking is too good! If he has a health issue, thats for him and his doctor to discuss NOT you. My fianc is an attractive man and makes a good living. Being open and honest is what worked for us. Answer (1 of 8): Understanding that my view may not be of popular opinion, I whole heartedly believe attraction is a fundamental requirement in a relationship. When did you first realize you liked what she did to you? I just love seeing someone have little control of some aspect of their lives. YOUR KILLING YOUR HUSBANDS!!!". Both mom and baby came through with flying colors. I'm a 14 yo virgin who hasn't had my period,is that normal? W / Women Now True story: "I gained 20kg to please my fat-loving boyfriend" Clara* was slim all her life, but falling in love with a man who preferred chubby women put her on the path to weight gain - and she says she has no regrets All contours sharply defined. My belly is noticeably bigger, my friends even notice. I feel free to indulge without need to justify anything, especially to strangers with dubious intentions. Or was your success part of your reason for letting loose? Allowing a child to become super obese is parental negligence. LOL. Maybe your boyfriend likes it as much as you do, so he is not particularly worried about it. My name is Monique and I wanted to tell you about how my boyfriend wanted to get rid of my fat. Long story short, Ive been in fairly good shape my entire life. Be honest with yourself and him as to what you desire as well. Its interesting to see how some people are comfortable in the club and others are fighting it. Shes been fattening me up for many years. And Im waddling more now than ever. It sounds like a sentence out of the mouth of every guy who . Oh, and I'd grown one whole inch taller in those 17 years since freshman year. Official Oxford 2023 Postgraduate Applicants Thread, How to handle colleague/former friend rejection again, Official Cambridge Postgraduate Applicants 2023 Thread, The Cambridge College Hurt/Heal Game [part 2], Andrew Tate arrested for human trafficking, are there more doors or wheels in the world, The Official Love Island Thread Winter 2023, History NEA- John Guy Historian validity and analysis. You are allowed to feel like it sucks. I wouldnt say I want her to keep gaining weight, but my level of attraction to her is higher than it was before she gained the weight. I'm at 250 now and looking at 350. In some ways, fat has a regulating effect on some people in that they are kinder, more empathetic, etc. On our tenth anniversary she was 295 lbs, and on our 20th she weighed 360. What exactly do you not like about his new belly? Eat late. Same woman. This 250 lb tub is already gaining. Do they have problems fitting in with their peers? By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. I consider the two of us extremely lucky guys. My 3 girls and I are also very big, like your wife and kids. (Seems to be the thing to do!) She looked positively massive on the birthing table and the nurses barely knew how to handle all that gorgeous pregnant blubber. Do I Need To Tell Him I Cheated? The s** is amazing for us he loves my big bum. My boyfriend is part of the reason why I have got so fat. I fantasize about poking the bulging bellies of these privileged yet porcine princes and princesses, and calling them "piggy". I never really wanted to gain but secretly love how he looks at me, rubs my body, and ultimately fantasize him feeding me. In the past few months my boyfriend gained weigh, a feeeeew kilos actually. Or should I just let go and let the inner fatty out/let the seems pop? Oh yes. Stop reducing us and trying to explain away our existence. We've been married for just about 5 years also, and I too have gained right around 100 pounds. Thats when it really gets fun. I'm going to sit on my fat ass and eat until I can barely walk. It's 7:30; you're getting ready for an 8:00 dinner with your parents. I'm 15, 5'5" and about 120-125 pounds and I'm a size 0-2. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I realized I started finding this to be very attractive because now I get obsessed about what he eats. When Your Husband Gets Fat. I dont think its as much as a fetish as Im just attracted to her new curvier body in a way I didnt realize I would be. No one is encouraging me/I don't want to become fat. So glad to hear other wives react that way. I made sure to wear a slightly too small shirt so it kept sliding up over my belly a little and I had to keep pulling it down. How fat has he ended up?Much prefer a chubbier guy. Im not into intentional gaining or stuffing. And I should admit that he seems really attractive to me when he's at home just in underwear, with his belly sticking out, his tights tighter and his butt getting rounder. Nothing like 200 pounds of jiggly fat to announce TAKEN!. When I'm with my married friends they speak about their husbands looks and weight in such a negative way. It's not going as well as planned and there are arguments and tantrums everyday. As I stated previously many of the kids at my oldest daughter's school seen to be quite chubby but none are as chubby as my daughter. Ladies, its not the worst thing to have a bigger guy in your life. If she is not okay with that then drop her like a hot potato. I thought I was crazy or some kind of pervert.. but it seems the love of big woman is quite normal. Thats why everyone should remain careful about these causes. Hi guys, how are you doing? My wife was 170 and 5'6" when we met 20 years ago and she now weighs 530 pounds and I just love it and can't keep my hands off of all her fat. He keeps fit, works out and is following a program so he'll look great when we go to the . His body is alive! Id rather have a fat husband than no husband at all. I dont think she wanted a portly husband. This is because its easier to burn fat after a bulk, and having surplus calories will make it easier to build and preserve muscles to increase the metabolic rate during sleep, which will eventually lead to weight loss. It may take a bit of time for you to find yourself full-on, dying-to-bang attracted to him again, whether he loses weight or doesnt. I'd been broken up with my on-and-off boyfriend of five years for about three months when I agreed to meet him for dinner. Just be honest and upfront and complementary of her new size and shape. YOUR KILLING YOUR HUSBANDS!!! A link that will let you reset your password has been emailed to you. (Devil horns). I'll bet they ready have physical limitations that will affect their health down the line. It's reality. There is only one issue that has become increasingly difficult to deal with: he is rapidly gaining weight. She had dieted down from around 400 for her wedding day and after we were married she told me that she hated every minute of the diet and that not being able to eat her favorite fattening foods was like torture. When we got married, my 5'5" wife was chubby at 175 lbs. And always provide dessert. My friends think I'm crazy for liking this, but they don't understand that she is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. They seem to think how their husband's look is a reflection on them. It hasnt been bad. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, Scan this QR code to download the app now. Abuse increases my appetite, so further gaining is inevitable. Mine lost about 70lbs and has same issue with arms and legs but she says she will never gain it back. But I look good and curvier at this higher weight, so I feel fine about that. My wife has to lift my massive belly to have s**. Its not weird at all; many people actually find chubby spouses adorable instead of repulsive, thinking they resemble a cute little teddy bear, and cuddling with them at night would be extra comfortable. (Which is true, he has lost about an inch." Big bodies are not just social experiments, nor are we just fetishes. I keep imagining if the situation were reversed. Is it hopeless? I keep myself in shape as I have to take care of my gorgeous huge wife and my plump little darlings. What are you eating to gain? Small changes are better than nothing after all. 5. So sweet. Yes, After she started putting on some weight, she made a few comments about getting too fat, and I told her that I prefered her that way, so she just stopped worrying about her weight. We have been married for 28 years. I should be able to push her way up over 600lbs in the next year. My gal and I teased each other to 300. Right on, Im 32 and was raised in a big fat family who enjoys their food and it shows. Skinny fat is caused mainly by insufficient muscle mass, leading to a larger body fat percentage. A Saturday evening with her dad, you're thinking . By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. So I recently asked my husband that if he could choose what weight I could be, what would he choose (Im 55 and WAS about 125 pounds). Sooooooo, why do people do this Again? Obviously he loves you getting fatter! A lot of people have been facing worse mental health during the pandemic, but even though its pretty normal and common right now, its still absolutely worth taking seriously. Im no longer physically attracted to him, and I feel horrible about it. With her size now I have to have her track pants made and forget undergarments bras and panties they don't make any large enough for her. Whether thats me putting on weight and filling out or a romantic partner. I told my wife I have to lose weight this year and she smiled and caressed my bulging love handle. Can you go on more date nights? Bloated belly rubs are amazing, both for the person with the chubby belly and the person getting to love and rub on it. My wife is plump, almost obese, I started to get a bit of a roll, as of late, she reached over, a few days ago, grabbed my baby bulge and said How cute, must be the mud pie and other deserts, I am proud of you. Now, I am very fit, or was, in the last year, still workout hard, but the bulge is growing. She hasnt said too much. It has ruined a lot of marriages which I thought about. There are some advantages to living life with a little extra weight. What kind of fattening dishes? Women are affected terribly by body dysmorphia issues because our culture makes them hate there bodies. S** is unbelievable for us. The lesson here is guys, if you want a fat wife find a fat girl who is comfortable in her own skin. I'm afraid he'll think I've been up to something to no good this whole time, when it's mostly just me appreciating his body. So far she doesn't seem affected but who knows for the future. Sorry about the title, but that's exactly what is happening. Sophie-X. Hes stopped caring for a pet! My girlfriend LOVES my fat, too, and it makes it hard to resist her treats, her attention and her obvious obsession with my fat. That day, she started chowing down, and now she's a very pleasing 275 or so. If youre in the middle of a hurricane, for example, you might not be like, Damn, my husband Harold has really sexy calves, even if they normally get you going. It wasn't until a year after we started dating was when she said she had it with diets and would I still be interested if she put on more weight. 'S put on ~30 pounds in the last year, still workout hard, but that 's exactly is! 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