Guess where I am at now? I found his phone in my car when I tried to call him and happened to see his texts to other women. Fortunately, having known a narcissist, you should be better able to spot one in the future and avoid a similar experience. After a few cycles of it while he was trying to gaslight me, I told him he needed to leave. I choose my moment and said a couple of weeks later, its finished, we are clearly incompatible and Im going back to my apartment at the other end of the country. The sad truth is they almost certainly will return. Meaning after the toxic relationship has come to an abrupt end. He will surely try to Hoover again asking when can we have The Talk and I will not respond. Not only are you too sensitive, its your own damn fault that all of this is happening to you., Now, during the narcissist discard phase, they wont even bat an eyelid that youre crying. All else is futile dear marionfallon1961. They get more narcissistic supplies for their shaky self-esteem by cutting you off totally, than they ever get in a real relationship. If they respect you, they will absolutely abide by your wishes. Similar situation, that worsened over the years due to his nature and substance abuse issues. The narcissist I know has shown all the signs of discard but I, have decided to stop enjoying the drama and playing the victim. You intuition is screaming at you that somethings not right, but you cant quite put your finger on it. It wasnt safe and there was no right answer. Take No Responsibility For Everything. Waiting in a homeless shelter for my housing to kick in. I hope you can move to a location where he cannot find you at all. I've missed you so much!" "I'm so sorry if I hurt you. It is sudden & unexplained. A toxic narcissist relationship revolves around insecurity, abuse, and then manipulation. This is the . Relaying messages through friends. Having said that, narcissists come in different flavors. Learn how your comment data is processed. I spent 15 years, committed and doing what a faithful partner should do. Im besides myself with all this narcissistic abuse Ive been learning about but have some level of relief knowing this was not my fault, even though I continue to revert to it may just be my fault. The narcissist discard can be even more confusing. Last Dec. we lost our home. The thing to remember is that the way you are feeling is not your fault and it is not permanent. The intent behind going No Contact vs. using the silent treatment and ghosting is all in the drivers and the outcomes. You have the opportunity to step into your own power and be completely self-reliant. Ergo, you are an abusive narcissist. Also, I didnt have hardly any family/friends around & had a difficult, disabled child & this consumed a lot of my energy. It might even appear to be a reconciliation between the two of you. Thats the level of mental disorder were dealing with here. More devastating, but less common, is when a spouse disappears after years of marriage. I can explain she is a narcissist, but nobody can even begin to understand the fear. Whether theyve got a new BFF or soulmate, you can be sure everyone will know about it! Without a subpoena, voluntary compliance on the part of your Internet Service Provider, or additional records from a third party, information stored or retrieved for this purpose alone cannot usually be used to identify you. What the hell just happened? It is a love not of another person, but of ourselves.. Narcissists, by definition, have a need to control people, which means breaking it off with them before theyre ready will almost certainly turn out ugly. as discard begun, she kept of saying that we were incompatible. Your emotional and psychological reaction to the silent treatment and ghosting is A grade supply for the narc. They will gaslight you and manipulate your memories and reality in such a way as to try and make you take the blame for the abuse and their poor behaviours. It is about preventing exposure to any further abuse to begin healing and reclaiming a life of freedom. to help get him his own housing. Once a narcissist is done they will completely pull back from you. Light & love to you gorgeous one. for more on trauma bonds). RELATED POSTS: Dating a Narcissist Divorce a Narcissist & Win Tips for Separating from a Narc Do They Miss You After Discard? I actually found these articles by googling how to make a narcissist miserable because she has me so far gone I was ready to just hurt her back right wrong whatever. It also relates to blocking indirect dealings such as via the narcissists flying monkeys. Both the silent treatment and ghosting relate to withholding information to exercise power and control over you. They will never ever be happy inside so let them worry about fixing themselves. 3 Reply MomFriendOverride 3 yr. ago The love-bombing stage is over. This may be in the form of outright ghosting your messages and calls, right through to not being available for you at all. The only way forward from here is to heal yourself and raise your vibration to a place in which no narcissist can ever live again. If you continue to use this site we assume that you are happy with this. I got my 1st apartment in 8 years. If theres no kids involved consider yourself blessed.Shit I have kids so its gone be a very long as road.Also,we not having sex or anything so Im sure theres a new supply.Moreover;Hes nonchalant an in I dont care mode.I have am open dss case and Im finson to have to cut babydad loose he has substance abuse issues.An a convert narcissist! It is a cycle that will leave the victim without self-esteem, a world full of anxiety, no social life, weak physical health, and traumatic life. If he has that protection order, dont contact him. Well if only I had known after my first discard that really crushed me but at the time I was still battling just learning why and that I had been a codependent to this Narc for sixteen long years while raising my beautiful daughter from my first experience of a Narcissist sadly I fell a year after that one and ended up raising my daughter by him with the second Narc. Many times when I read articles about silent treatment and ghosting I feel the author must be very careful in distinguishing intent because it is literally what your are told to do in order to protect yourself from abusers even when the abuser may not realize they are abusers, which many dont. If you stay long enough, you become a super supply and the abuse will only get worse as they will test the grounds of how far they can go in their destruction. If you think back to how your ex behaved during the relationship, you are likely to be able to recognize him as belong to one of the following three groups. xx, Dear Shelley, thank you for your kind words. I mean, lets be honest, narcissists are emotional voids at the best of times. How to Know If a Narcissist is Finished with You: 9 Sure Signs 1. But 1 day, in the future.. Another said that he could not sustain a relationship for more than two weeks. Narcissists thrive on attention and when someone goes silent on us, our first instinct is to ask them whats wrong. He was unfaithful in the 1st two yrs of marriage; with zero remorse about it. It was absolute torture; more especially given the close relationship I had with her children and the subsequent silent treatment/gaslighting. [7+ Reactions] How Do Narcissists Treat Old Supply? Despite what some may suppose who have blessedly not experienced narcissistic abuse, the decision is agonising and deeply distressing. . Inevitably when you make the decision to go No Contact, the narcissist will launch a smear campaign. I know he has lined up a new source of supply, hopefully the wife finds out again and makes his life a living hell. To do so, to engage in any way, only prolongs the abuse and the harm sustained. Theres no doubt about it, being on the receiving end of a narcissist discard is extremely painful. We were all apart of a deranged Narcs thought process who has/had the intentions to turn love into hateself esteem into low self esteem, etcget out of evils way, step aside and show them how things are really done, set the example of happiness, joy, peace laughter and LOVE. Does the Narcissist Treat the New Supply Better? I am now estranged from my beautiful daughter and was replaced again when I caught him again lying cheating etc it was the worse hell ever and I thought id never get up again as he had done this to me before and when I healed and the woman he left for dumped him then I was called back again. So now my punishment is the silent treatment and my parents cant see their grandchildren. Light & love to you. She realised I know because I useda dna test on the baby and shes being nice now as in she feels better knowing it will be over soon. The narcissist will likely move on from the discard as quickly as possible because they simply want free reign over their life at this point. They draw you in close, then when you least expect it, they abruptly withdraw. Even though odds are that they are the ones who should be apologising, the feeling of being deleted from their world is so intense. If you are truly struggling to cope with the discard and you feel like you cannot find any comfort or support, it may be a good idea to speak with a professional about what happened. Narcissists are skilled manipulators and they may make you feel like its your fault, but that is simply a tactic to ensure that you do not get angry or upset about what happened. All of these feelings are normal after a breakup, but especially so after being discarded by a narcissist. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for anonymous statistical purposes. I am in a bad situation with no family/friends and no money to evict. Narcs make it a daily effort to do the opposite of whats good. Whether a narcissist discards you permanently depends on three basic factors: As one narcissistic client told me: People are very interchangeable for me. Its been 19 yrs of marriage for me, full of chaos & drama. This is my second narcissistic relationship and I had a gut feeling he was a narc in the beginning but stayed because I wanted to give him a chance. got home and wrote of list of good and bad things about her. Its important not to blame this person or make them feel guilty for what happened, but instead, allow them to offer you support and understanding. Recognizing the narcissist discard phase and its meaning allows you an opportunity to break the cycle before the relationship gets even worse. In fact after years of messy feuds, there are very few intact relationships in this narcissists family. As with most narcissistic behaviours, the litmus test you can apply in pinpointing the difference between No Contact, the silent treatment and ghosting, is intention. I hope to have a man that actually Listens, Cares, & isnt calculating the next scheme! Time will help us all. You dont have to be though. 100% with you. We use cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website. You are so on the money. The narcisist in my life was also my next door neighbour! Butafter a while the novelty of enacting the loving couple wears off and they lack the ability to stay emotionally connected to you once things are less than perfect. I am sorry this happened to you. With just the clothes on my back! I will list seven questions I frequently hear from people who have been discarded by a narcissist. The narcissist discards people for their benefit and they do not care about your feelings at all. In answer to your questionsyou may never get the answers you are looking for. Moving into a more intimate phase of the relationship is painful for narcissists as it requires them to reveal their faults and accept that their idealized self is a false perception. Here are some things to help you not only deal with the discard dished out at the hands of the narcissist, but to actually step into your power and become a stronger person because of it. Examples of narcissist text messages when hoovering: "Hey, let's catch up. This can take the form of: Leaving a narcissist is never easy, but in the long run, its probably for the best. And of course, they are the poor, long suffering victim. If a narc knows the end is nigh, they cannot stand the thought of anyone else knowing any truth about who they are. I am with you. Eventually though, be prepared to be hoovered at some point when all of their other sources dry up. Most often they will attempt to charm you and shower you with flattery. Reclaim your freedom & joy and start your recovery journey now! The narcissist discard phase is so painful and confusing because it seems easy for the narcissist to toss you aside; they appear totally lacking in emotion. Think about, how much of their daily energy goes into turning the good into bad, love to hate, positivity to negativity this is how their brain functions. I am 63 and hid dozens of times under clothes in my closet. His shady behavior was noticed early on in our marriage; I didnt realize those were warnings of much worse to come. And for the empath or codependent, this is unfathomably difficult. In fact, the more pain they see you in, the happier they seem to be. This is when the discard happens youre tossed aside in favor of someone new, someone who can provide that initial high they desperately need. Without any previous warning signs or indications that you are about to be discarded. One is to abuse and the other to stop it. After all, whats the difference between going No Contact, the silent treatment and ghosting? Every little piece of their bad behaviour that you see through and stand up against, all creates a strength in you that you may not even be aware of. Take this time to grow personally. Another motivation for narcissist ghosting is after the discard. The decision to go No Contact feels like the only available choice because: These circumstances force not only the conclusion that No Contact is necessary for survival, but also the devastating understanding that there will be no closure. Dear ozanark. To those who have experienced it, the discard feels incredibly cold and makes little sense. What is Narcissistic Rage? If a narcissist isnt trying to manipulate and get something from you, then they will not bother wasting their energy pretending and keeping up with false pretences. Just reading this wisdom has made me feel a lot better about myself and given me hope. Focus on You 3. Yourmental health your psychological, emotional, and social well-being has an impact on every aspect of your life. You will get through this. Dont get me wrong I still want that I just dont want it with him. His verbal abuse slowly intensified over the 19 yrs, until I had to call the police last yr. Hes a raging narc. Regardless of the fact you are no longer in contact, if you fall for this they are still controlling and manipulating you. When a narcissist says I love you, they actually meanI love what you do for me and give me. Being in a toxic relationship makes you believe that everything negative that happens in a relationship is your fault. But what lies beyond this gross over-simplification? Narcissists require praise and ego-boosting, so theyre not likely to discard you before finding a new person (Narcissistic Supply) that can provide those things. I have two fantastic children, I managed to keep my closest friends, lost the ones that tried to help me. My storage is going to auction today and my dog is with him in van. Maggie McGee and Narc Wise, 2019. A cold, cowardly exit while the kids & I were out of town. But you must think that you can heal from this tragedy and have a wonderful future. She has a supply shes been using for close to 3 years and is ready to move over. Im sorry for what you have experienced gorgeous one. He blames my daughter and her boyfriend. However, that was not your fault. Lets start from the beginning to see how we reach the discard phase. Dear marionfallon1961. With time comes healing and eventually your wounds will fade away until they are only scars left behind to remind you what happened to prevent it from happening again. You could do nothing to save it, though, as the failure comes from the narcissists inability to care about anyone besides themselves. You did nothing wrong! A homeless shelter waiting room! You read the lease. Theyll never be able to hook you back in again. Youve ended it. Without empathy and a conscience, they will do, say and pretend to be whatever they need to, purely to extract supply from others. The silent treatment is just the first step though. This is unfortunately very much part of the healing journey with cluster b personality disordered individuals who are abusive. The negative words they devalued you with can be used to justify why the relationship is no longer viable. Their hope is that once you realize how little you mean to them, you will work even harder to please them. Lets have a look at why the narcissist discards the people they so readily pretend to care about and how they do it. In all likelihood, this is untrue, but it may feel true to the narcissist as they arent feeling the same high they initially got from the relationship. Letter From a Narcissist [Behind the Mask]. Borderline, narcissistic, and Schizoid Adaptations: The Pursuit of Love, Admiration and Safety. We do. The consent submitted will only be used for data processing originating from this website. I need serious help. Thank You for answering those questions that I had had on my conscience. This is breaking our heart. Get out. They will pin blame on you, explaining in detail how you failed them as a partner. I saw a side of him Id never witnessed before in the twenty years Id known him (even through the abuse)! Without that life force, they are left as a defective soul who is filled with inner hatred and self-loathing due to their wounding. Oh my gosh, I just laughed out loud. Stop focusing on their who, what,where,why,hows etc. Im doing everything to help myself right now and she keeps playing her on off game trying to get under my skin while disappearing all night to his house without any regard for her baby. Youre showered with praise, gifts, and affection (known as love-bombing); this is when the narcissist is at their best and they appear to be forming a genuine connection with you. the police had brought him here while evicting him from his last residence. To be loved. In reality, no amount of effort would have changed the relationships outcome, as the narcissist is always looking for new victims to pad their ego. Why narcissistic abuse and trauma bonding is so powerful for codependents, Why the narcissist chose you: Pathological envy, What happens when the narcissist knows youve figured them out, 3 signs the narcissist is preparing to discard you, Emotionally unhook yourself & starve the narcissist of supply: Heres how, Invalidation and narcissism: Why they slowly erase you, The narcissist's word salad: Stop biting now, Proof the narcissist abuses you intentionally and will never change. When they finally do leave, by moving out or divorcing you, theyll be in a better position to take everything, leaving you with only feelings of self-doubt. Sick. However, they were able to charade a false image of themselves in the beginning. If they are bored and lonely too, they will answer and the whole thing will start again and end in exactly the same painful way as before. In this emotional and mental state, the victim may not even notice that the discard is just over the horizon. If you would like to change your settings or withdraw consent at any time, the link to do so is in our privacy policy accessible from our home page.. 6. But not before trying to push his way past me again like before. I think I have just been too traumatized from all the years of abuse with my first narc, my childhood, other relationships and now him. Whether they have an alternative source of self-esteem building narcissistic supplies. He discarded me June 22. Im currently in this exactly position. Like an addict that builds up a tolerance, even this level of control can no longer boost the narcissists ego in the way they so desperately need. The point of this stage is to earn the person's trust, loyalty, and affection. It doesnt seem like he wants to come back but Im afraid if he tries to that I will cave. After 6 years of the glorifying, belittling and abandonment. Read a lot about the subject. Particularly when it comes to worrying that you are the narcissist, rather than the victim of one (check out How you know youre not the Narcissist for more detail on dispelling any fears on this front). Look at it like this, you had to study for an exam and you putting so much effort into hoping that you pass the test. Narcissist Discard Phase: Revenge or Peace? The Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse EXPLAINED! The narcissist will eventually leave you alone as they move on to their next victim who will provide them with a newfound well of ego-boosting attention. 5. Every time youre drawn to someone who triggers those hurts, you are looking outside of yourself for someone else to fix your hurts and show up the way you need them to. Things get a lot more complicated if you share finances, children, or a home with the narcissist. It gets easier, I promise. The twisted thing is that in the narcissists warped reality, they genuinely think that you are the one doing all of the wrong things. Instead, they highlight how they were the victim and how youll fail in every subsequent relationship. As you can see from the above, many narcissists are quite willing to come back for as long as it suits their needs, while remaining oblivious to yours. However, it is important to remember that you are not silly for being targeted by a narcissist. An example of data being processed may be a unique identifier stored in a cookie. My mind swirled for two months attempting to reconcile. They may leave you suddenly and rationalize it in any of a number of ways. You started taking it out on me! Even though I hadnt seen or recognised any of that within myself, he had very much noticed the strength building in me and took it as a personal attack against him. I mean, the fact that they mean that much to you and that they have that much control over you, just validates their ego even more. Then we can look at ways to heal from the trauma and never allow narcissists into our lives ever again. I remember a few years before I left my narc husband, I came across some information about narcissism, which is when the penny dropped about my mother being a narc.Advertisementsif(typeof ez_ad_units != 'undefined'){ez_ad_units.push([[336,280],'unmaskingthenarc_com-netboard-2','ezslot_14',114,'0','0'])};__ez_fad_position('div-gpt-ad-unmaskingthenarc_com-netboard-2-0'); Although it took two more years for me to be pushed to leave my husband, it wasnt until after Id left that I realised he was also a narcissist. Ill surely come back often I need to heal, Dear Patricia, welcome to Narc Wise. Im so very glad youve found some answers to rest easier. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for statistical purposes. I know the worst is yet to come as a narc does not accept rejection lying down. So lets tackle No Contact vs. the silent treatment & ghosting, so that you can rest soundly knowing the differences between them are just as great as the contrast between you and the narc. How can we feed the narcissist and still see the kids without losing our minds? This includes all direct forms of communication with the narcissist. If youre dealing with a narc, there is one guarantee that you can be certain of the narcissist will discard you.Advertisementsif(typeof ez_ad_units != 'undefined'){ez_ad_units.push([[580,400],'unmaskingthenarc_com-medrectangle-3','ezslot_18',101,'0','0'])};__ez_fad_position('div-gpt-ad-unmaskingthenarc_com-medrectangle-3-0'); Its utterly devastating to think that the person who you thought loved you or at least cared for you, could be so callous. Maggie x. What happens When You Ignore a Narcissist Who Dumped You? Still in the hoovering phase, but no use. If youre not living together, theres a good chance theyll simply pick a fight, blame you for the relationships failure, and then say something to make you feel awful about yourself. Wordfence is a security plugin installed on over 4 million WordPress sites. Absolute torture ; more especially given the close relationship I had with her children and the outcomes a! Silly for being targeted by a narcissist, you will work even to! 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